The new year is here, and I know we’re all making those new year’s resolutions right about now. Well, I have resolved to not resolve this year lol! I’m just going to DO. To be honest, I know what I want out of life, and in this next year. So, I’m just going to do it. Instead of a list of goals (which I do have), I decided to give you my to-do list for 2020. I wanted to share, and put it out there so that hopefully it will come back to me. Make sure you share some of your “to-do’s” in the comments below too.
Step Outside My Comfort Zone
I have a tendency to sit right where my comfort lies. But, these last few months have taught me that the true blessings come out of discomfort and a little anxiety. The decision to get into photography caused me a lot of discomfort and anxiety. But, it has been the biggest blessing! Because of photography, I’m able to be my most creative self, help other women, and make extra money while doing it. I’ve also decided to try something different with my own photos. I want to have fun with my shoots, and create outstanding content. So, definitely expect to see a difference in my photos this year.
Purchase My House
I’m going to keep speaking my house into existence because I no longer want to be a renter. I will buy my house this year. It will be a 4 bedroom ranch style house with a big open kitchen. My master bedroom will be huge. Elijah will love his room. And I will have a cloffice (closet/office) to run my business and store all of my favorite shoes and clothes.
Begin Seeing a Therapist
I’ve been wanting to see a therapist for a while now. And because there is so much that I want to do this year (and many years to come), I have to make sure that my mental health is in tact. I think it’s necessary to have someone to share your thoughts with that doesn’t have a scewed view on life. A professional. I’ve started looking for a therapist using some of the tips provided in this book here. It has helped significantly!
Dating With Purpose
This is kind of a big deal for me, since I haven’t dated anyone in 3 years. The struggle is real y’all. And I have to be honest (again), I get anxiety when I think about the whole idea of going on a date. You never know what you’re going to get. However, I’m working on it. I’ve created my list of qualities that I want in my man/husband so that once he finds me, I will know it’s him with all the certainty in the world. And I’ve made it my goal to prepare myself to be on ready (so I don’t have to get ready) for the moment we meet!!!
Become a Better Photographer
I will be an expert photographer. I will have the best eye for gorgeous photos that no one will be able to deny it! I love photography! And once I set my mind on something, there is nothing that can stop me from achieving greatness in whatever it is. So, I will become an expert photographer!
That’s it y’all! I just want to be a better me this year, and every year. I don’t feel like I lived my best life last year. So, I’m going to give it a try again this year. We’ll see how it goes! As usual, I will keep you posted on my progress!
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